Women Share Their Real Wedding Night A.K.A First Night Experiences

You've probably heard this joke before. 'Can you name a location where 500 individuals are thinking about eating and only two are thinking about sex?' 'The answer is a wedding,' says the narrator. Yes, it is true that as soon as a marriage contract is signed in our country, the bride and groom begin planning their wedding night.

Despite the fact that young couples are getting more open-minded by the day, some people are still hesitant to ask a married friend or cousin about what happens on wedding night. Is it similar to what we've seen in films? Is it necessary to become intimate on the night of the wedding? Is it possible that the reality is completely different?

To assist these soon-to-be brides and grooms, we turned to Quora, the world's largest 'question and answer' web. Given that India is Quora's second-largest market (after the United States), we dug deep into the site and produced a selection of responses from real brides and grooms who shared their wedding night experiences.

Answers By Anonymous Quora Users:

• I was terrified as an Indian bride in an arranged marriage! But, to to my surprise, we ended up playing a game of counting flower petals. The wager was that whomever accurately counted the most petals would win a prize. And I came out on top!
• We had a lot of fun with one other and had a lot of foreplay. It was fervent, loving, and out of this world.
• We spent a lot of time talking, sharing fruits, and sleeping in one other's arms.
• All of the heavy jewellery, makeup, and lehenga were removed with the assistance of my hubby. He was aware of my concerns and did not assert his husbandly rights over me. We simply cuddled and fell asleep. I fell in love with him that night.
• Wedding nights aren't like the ones shown in Bollywood and Hollywood films. It was a mix of wet smooches, uncomfortable moments, awkward positions, and cramps, if you ask me.
• Our first night in Langkawi was during our honeymoon. My partner gave me a Kamasutra book, and we tried several unusual positions.
• I fell asleep while waiting for my husband and was awoken at 6 a.m. by my phone's alarm. I just felt awwww when I saw my husband sleeping near me with an innocent smile on his face.
• Because of our over-enthusiasm and reckless attitude, I became pregnant. Please wear protection on your wedding night, as a reminder to all soon-to-be newlyweds.
• You wouldn't believe it, but my wife and I were up till 4 a.m. playing Pub-G. We still chuckle uncontrollably when we recall that night.